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Family constellations (Order of Love)
School – developmental and educational groups
Association for Systemic Family Therapy and Systemic Solutions of Serbia and Montenegro

Belgrade

Ms. Mirna Malic - Nesic
Phone: +381 (0) 64 
135 82 71
E-mail: udruzenje.st@gmail.com

School – developmental and educational groups

Association for Systemic Family Therapy and Systemic Solutions of Serbia and Montenegro organizes developmental and post-graduate studies of Family constellations (Order of Love) method. The groups are open to all who are interested, and provide 200 to 300 hours of education a year. Through personal interview with Mr. Vlado Ilic, the educator, you will get information regarding your individual educational program.

You can apply for the educational group at Association at the phone:
 +381 (0) 64   135 82 71 (Ms. Mirna Malic - Nesic) or by e-mail:
udruzenje.st@gmail.com

The aims of education

The aims of education are professional post-graduate studies of theory and methodology of Family constellations (Order of Love) and its practical application. The focus of this educational path of development is holistic and integrative approach to the client and his/hers surrounding, and comprehension of interactive operations of energy field. During program, the participants are engaged in the intensive development of personal skills and knowledge required to obtain professional qualifications to work in the field of Order of Love. Learning about natural orders, the participants are able to have deep insights about their own personalities, their belonging to primary family and other systems, as well as eventual energy entanglements. At the same time, they are developing refined skills to sense subtle messages from the Universal Knowledge. The participants of the educational and developmental groups apply learned principles that enable them better comprehension of their own lives and solving everyday problems, and learn to realize their own limitations in helping others without intention. The acquired knowledge can be applied in the terms of individual growth, as well as in consulting, therapy (group, individual, couples, family, children, etc.) or with the specific clinical population.

Education

Education is mainly practically oriented. The theoretical part is relatively small, and involves supervised individual engagement.

Education within the developmental group is open to all who are interested, and requires no previous knowledge. Please submit your CV with your application.

Post-graduate specialization for systemic consultants requires professional training in the field of desired area of interest to work as systemic consultant. It is necessary to submit the proof of professional training and education (diploma) with your CV.

Post-graduate education for systemic therapists requires professional education in humanities (psychology, pedagogue, teaching, sociology, medical school, psychiatry, etc). It is necessary to submit the proof of professional training and education (diploma) with your CV.

To those who do not satisfy criteria above mentioned, but are interested to participate the post-graduate education, previous education and methods of personal growth will be taken into consideration and recognized as valid, depending on their education, life and professional experience, and path of development before and during education in the Order of Love method. The students who are at their finishing years of studies can apply for program before graduation.

The final decision about acceptance in the educational group will be made after the interview with Mr. Ilic. Through the interview, you can acquire information about your individual educational program, as well as the details about realization of the program.

Intensive post-graduate education

For medical professionals and other colleagues with experience and university level specialist’s training, depending on their education, life and professional experience, as well as path of development before and during education, it is possible to recognize other ways of self-development, and shorten the time needed for education in Order of Love method. You can explain your request for speeding up the educational program in the personal interview with Mr. Vlado Ilic, and get information about your individual program.


Educational program

Basic level

-Approx. one year and a half, up to two years - 320 hours and two essays

Focus of this path of development is on individual processes and dynamics within the family system. The participants learn about basic theoretical and methodological concepts of Order of Love and natural laws that operate within the family system. Being able to apply the learned principles, they gain deeper understanding of their own lives and become more effective in solving everyday problems. After finishing this level, it is possible to acquire the certificate about participation in the educational and developmental group of Family constellations (Order of Love) method.

First degree – postgraduate specialization for Systemic Consultants

- Approx. two to three years – 680 hours, three essays and final work

The participants who take part in the intensive educational program strengthen their theoretical knowledge in practical work, refine their sensitivity and emotional abilities and deepen the understanding of how the energy field operates within the family. The certificate of Training in constellation work is granted after finishing this level.


Second degree - postgraduate education for Systemic Therapists

-Approx. three to four years – 950 hours, four essays and final work

The participants deepen their knowledge and intensively refine sensibilities needed to understand the subtle messages of Universal Knowledge, as well as develop abilities to abandon the learned models of behavior – “education in ignorance”. The focus is on the comprehension of the therapist’s role and his place in the system of the client, and learning to realize own limitations in unintentional helping others. The certificate of education in Family constellations (Order of Love) method and Family and System Constellation practitioner is granted after finishing this level.

Theoretical base

1. General

- the models that preceded the Order of Love method (Virginia Satir and her work)

- Methodological models

System theory (homeostasis, feedback / information, exchange, equifinality)

Family therapy, theory and its development (Milan and Palo Alto groups), Minuchin, Boszormenyi – Nagy

Primal therapy (primary, secondary and meta emotions)

Transactional analysis

- Phenomenology and field theory

- Principles of solution oriented therapies

- Awareness of the role and disassociation from it (identification, representation)

- Boundaries of individual freedom and limitations by destiny

- Soul and the Spirit, the empty center, emptiness

- Ethics, respect, consideration

- Code of ethics

- Art and ways of helping

- Ecology of organism (Dr. Sci. Stanisa Stoiljkovic – the holistic approach to organism, diets, combined diets, detoxication)


2. Basic topics of Family constellations (Order of Love)

- Bonding, belonging, order, settlement and balance

- The line of ancestors and integration of the excluded ones

- Conscience (individual and group) and guilt

- Specific phenomena (adoption, handicap, systemic traumas)

- Identification, entanglement and suffering

- Methods: Standard Family Constellation, Structural constellation, Movement of the Soul, Movement of the Spirit

- Constellation: Individual work, Group work, Work with organizations

- Indications and counter-indications

- Introduction to the larger systems


3. Procedure

- Explaining the significance, the first interview

- Explaining the belonging to the system

- Report and resonance with the client

- Important, useful and unimportant information

- Directions for work in the systemic constellation

- Decision making process: how and what to set up in the constellation

- Inclusion of the group

- Fixed positions in relation to free movement of the representatives

- Diagnostic information during the constellation (comprehension of the changes, use of information coming from the protagonists and representatives, elimination of irrelevant information)

- Understanding the sentences of resolution and strength

- Inclusion of the abstract elements, etc.


4. Fields of application

- Social work (family and the children, foster parenting, adoption, prisons, domestic violence and harassment, drug and alcohol addiction, handicaps, etc)

- Psychotherapy (individual pathology and forms of systemic binds, introduction and application of the constellations in the course of the psychotherapy, healing the loss and reestablishing the binds of the broken relationship, suicidal tendencies, grief, trauma, war traumas)

- Medicine (illness and curing, organs, medicaments, prevention)

- School system and education (teachers, students and administration, possibilities and limitations of the influence, integration of the parents and use of the “peer” groups)

- Culture, theater, art

- Couples and family counseling (love, intimacy, binding, sexuality, breaking up, “patchwork” families, single parenting, death, disease, handicaps, accidents, incest and sexual harassment, violence, strengthening the boundaries from the other systems)

- Organization and teaching, treatment of change of personal and professional aspects, comprehension of the differences

- War and peace, victims and perpetrators, integration of other cultures and races


5. Systemic therapist/systemic consultant (constellator)

- Self-consciousness, personal growth and reflection of own actions

- Education and supervision

- Qualities for leading the groups, group dynamics

- Empathy, authority, trust, neutrality

- Consciousness of own body and breathing

- Attitude and disassociation of the personality


6. Fields of contact

- Counseling competence, acquiring necessary general knowledge (interview, setting up, report, legal issues, etc.) and professional skills in counseling

- Constructivistic and autopoietic work

- Communication, suggestive language, influence and manipulation

- Work with intensive feelings and regression

- Basic knowledge in psycho-diagnostic

- Change of attitudes, system of believes and harmful convictions


Lecturers and trainers

Order of Love:

Bert Hellinger, the founder of the method

Vlado Ilic, professor, authorized senior educator and supervisor of Order of Love method - Hellinger approach, Institute for communication and education

Ecology of organism:

MSc Stanisa Stoiljkovic, Faculty of Technology